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Red flags and warning signs

Signs that your teenager may be in an abusive dating relationship.


  • Your teen loses interest in activities they used to enjoy. Ex: No longer want to play sports, involvement in groups or clubs, etc...
  • Your teen stops seeing friends and family members and becomes more and more isolated.
  • Your teen apologizes for their dating partners behavior and makes excuses for them.
  • Your teens dating partner calls them names and puts them down in front of other people.
  • Displays extreme jealousy of others who pay attention to your teen, especially others of the opposite sex.
  • Attempts to control your teens behavior, checks up on them constantly, calls and texts very often, demanding to know where they have been and who they have been with.
  • Your teens dating partner follows their location on social media or phone app. 
  • Your teen becomes very anxious when they are not able to immediately respond to their dating partners calls or texts. 
  • You see their dating partner violently lose their temper, striking or breaking objects.
  • Your teen has unexplained bruises or injuries, or the explanations don’t make sense.


What to do if you suspect your teen is in a violent and/or emotionally abusive relationship? 


Parents should start talking to their children about healthy relationships well before they start dating. Provide your children with examples of healthy relationships in your own life. Point out healthy and unhealthy relationship behaviors in television, movies, and music and take an opportunity to talk to your child about what is appropriate and what is not. It is never too early to teach self-respect.


Teach your children to respect themselves. No one has the right to make your child feel bad about himself or herself. No one has the right to insult, control, or hit another. 


Always keep the lines of communication open. Encourage your child to come to you. Take the opportunity to talk to your child anytime the opportunity presents itself. Be open, understanding, and non-judgmental. Listen to your child and refrain from lecturing.


Ask your child questions to encourage conversations about healthy relationships and awareness of dating violence, such as: 


What makes a healthy relationship? 

What do you want in a relationship? o

What are the relationships like that you have witnessed at school or among friends? Have you witnessed any acts of violence? 

Have you seen someone using Facebook or text messages to insult, monitor, or control any of your friends? 

What would you do if you witnessed or experienced dating violence? 

How could you help someone in an abusive relationship?


If you suspect your teen is the victim of dating violence, make sure your teen knows you are there to help. Express your concern for your teen – keep the focus on your teen, not the abuser. Be clear that you do not blame your teen and that you are, and always will be, supportive of your teen. Understand that your teen must be one who decides to end the relationship – you can not do that for your teen. When your teen does end the relationship, help your teen develop a safety plan to stay safe during and after the break-up. Get advice and resources from a domestic violence agency.  



Red Flags and Warning Signs of Teen Dating Violence

Some common Red Flags and warning signs of emotional abuse and physical violence in teen dating relationship. 

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